I used to complain about how self centered people were, but this past week, I've noticed that it's not that we're self centered, it's just human nature to relate everything to ourselves. Yes, there are some MAJORLY self-centered people out there... not saying any names, but it happens, I guess... This past week, I've met an incredible amount of new people. I used to despise meeting new people, Pourquoi? Because they just annoyed the heck out of me, I figured that deep down, inside everyone, there was some ugly. But that's a story for another day.
Anyways, back to what I was saying. These new people that I've met and talked to, I noticed that when someone strikes up a fact or life experience that they've went through, the person that they were conversing with would say something about themselves also in return. Everybody who I met and observed did this. Interesting much?
It seems as if one person asks a subliminal question as they are talking about themselves and the other person replies with a subliminal questions as they relate.
Ex:
Guy: Dude, this girl is pissin' the shit out of me. She wont clean up after herself or pay the friken rent!
Buddy: Omg, I know someone like that! It pisses me off too!
Notice how when Guy strongly states an opinion about a girl he dislikes, Buddy responds to that subliminal question; "Doesn't it piss you off too?"
Anyways, whether you agree with me or not, it's just something that I have long observed and chuckled at. Human nature is such an odd and complex thing. One day... I'll sit at a coffee shop, sipping some cafe mocha and just observe everything. It's like going to the zoo! Lol.
The thoughts that run through my head. Just something I thought of. Happy babe?
-Banhzaii
Anyways, back to what I was saying. These new people that I've met and talked to, I noticed that when someone strikes up a fact or life experience that they've went through, the person that they were conversing with would say something about themselves also in return. Everybody who I met and observed did this. Interesting much?
It seems as if one person asks a subliminal question as they are talking about themselves and the other person replies with a subliminal questions as they relate.
Ex:
Guy: Dude, this girl is pissin' the shit out of me. She wont clean up after herself or pay the friken rent!
Buddy: Omg, I know someone like that! It pisses me off too!
Notice how when Guy strongly states an opinion about a girl he dislikes, Buddy responds to that subliminal question; "Doesn't it piss you off too?"
Anyways, whether you agree with me or not, it's just something that I have long observed and chuckled at. Human nature is such an odd and complex thing. One day... I'll sit at a coffee shop, sipping some cafe mocha and just observe everything. It's like going to the zoo! Lol.
The thoughts that run through my head. Just something I thought of. Happy babe?
-Banhzaii
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